Intro #1 to contrast essay (edited)

   How can I put this? You know the expression “ya got shit in one hand and want in the other? See which one piles up faster!” Well in my case they seemed to both pile up pretty damn fast. Comparing the kids biological father to “shit”, my first love, and my first break up because the selfish bastard cheated and decides on a whim to vanishes into the ARMY to “escape”, not once, but twice after impregnating me! The kids step father i would place with the “want”, which was the good guy who’d do anything for me and my kids, not money wise because he didn't have any but the love and care he offered was worth so much more. Don’t get me wrong they are the 2 most intelligent men I know, graduating at the top of their class, but there’s a fine line between intelligence and common sense! They both had one thing in common; they shared the role of being a father to my beautiful babies and at some point or other both were in a relationship with me. Matt may be a biological weekend warrior; per say “Father” a short buff tan man who perceives to be strong on the outside but in all actuality very weak on the inside. He does not know how to discipline or show any kind of human like feelings.  On the other hand, Jacob spends day in day out teaching them right from wrong, reads them stories, gives them baths, tucks them in, spends quality loving time with them.  Jacob and Matt are two totally different people, where as it kills matt to outwardly express his feelings, instead runs and hides like a coward, and Jacob lets you know exactly how he feels, always says “I love you” at the end of every phone call and genuinely cares about others feelings. Jacob has honestly earned that 5 letter word, even though not biologically their father, but he’s there “Daddy”. In summation, point being that anyone can be a father but it takes dedication, devotion and love to be a dad.